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Should adult children be expected to support their parents financially?

Half the world assumes yes and the other half assumes no, and both are surprised.

Concluded from · Assessed from the stance that obligation follows from what was actually given.

Closes at 1,500 answers

1,192 people have taken a position.

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The split is covered until you have taken a position, because on a question like this the room is not evidence about the world — it is what is being measured, and a number shown first would only tell you what the normal answer is. It opens to everybody when this closes, answered or not.

What people are weighing

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  • In much of the world it is a legal duty alreadyExpected
  • A duty owed regardless of how you were raised is not a dutyNot expected
  • Pension coverage decides this more than principle does

What settles this, and when it closes

This one has no answer. It has a room. Nothing in the world settles it — so when it closes, the floor says what it concludes, from a stated stance.

Counting closes as soon as 1,500 people have answered.

What people said · 4

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Sun-woo P.@sunwoo_p· 4 Sept

Expected

The generation that paid for you did it without calling it a loan. Refusing the same is a choice, not a principle.

114 called it the strongest case

Freya B.@freya_b· 6 Sept· reply

Not expected

That is exactly the loan you say it was not. If it cannot be declined, it was never a gift.

Freya B.@freya_b· 5 Sept

Not expected

An expectation that cannot be declined is a debt nobody agreed to. Help freely given is a different thing entirely.

108 called it the strongest case

Ade O.@ade_o· 7 Sept· reply

Expected

Help freely given still needs somebody willing to expect it, or it is never given at all.

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