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Is it wrong to use an AI to write a message to a friend?

You will not be told what most people said until you say what you think.

Concluded from · Assessed from the stance that a message is worth the attention behind it.

Runs while the room is still moving

1,331 people have taken a position.

Take a position and it opens — to you now, and to everybody when this closes.

The split is covered until you have taken a position, because on a question like this the room is not evidence about the world — it is what is being measured, and a number shown first would only tell you what the normal answer is. It opens to everybody when this closes, answered or not.

What people are weighing

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  • The friend cannot tell, which is the point or the problem
  • Condolences and birthdays are not the same messageDepends what the message is
  • Nobody objects to a phone suggesting the next wordNot wrong at all

What settles this, and when it closes

This one has no answer. It has a room. Nothing in the world settles it — so when it closes, the floor says what it concludes, from a stated stance.

No closing date has been set. The floor closes it when the room has stopped moving.

What people said · 3

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Lucia R.@lucia_r· 7 Sept

Yes, wrong

The message is not the point. The minutes you spent on it were the point, and those are what you removed.

131 called it the strongest case

Tom H.@tom_h· 8 Sept

Not wrong at all

Half the sympathy cards ever sent were written by a stranger and signed by a friend. Nobody minded.

87 called it the strongest case

Elias R.@elias_r· 10 Sept

Yes, wrong

The message is not the words. It is the four minutes you spent on it. Outsourcing that and sending it anyway is the part that is wrong.

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A question about manners that turns out to be a question about whose time counts.
Everyday lifeCloses at 1,500 answers

Is it worse to be late or to cancel?

Split covered1,342 in

Answer and it opens — to everybody at the close.

Concluded from · Assessed from the stance that the cost falls on whoever is left waiting.

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324 joined this week · positions taken, not the split

No closing date3 comments

Reasons, replies and what settles it